Radu Paraschivescu reflects on societal change in 'Noul ghid al nesimțitului'

Radu Paraschivescu has released 'Noul ghid al nesimțitului', twenty years after his first guide, offering a fresh perspective on the evolving nature of rudeness in society. He observes that the speed of information dissemination has changed dramatically, with social media now playing a major role in spreading incivility.

Paraschivescu points to the rise of new forms of rudeness, such as reel videos, and notes that behaviors in politics have deteriorated since December 1989. He highlights that, unlike twenty years ago, there is now no one to enforce silence, as censorship has vanished. This, he believes, has led to a significant cultural shift.

In his exploration of rudeness, Paraschivescu dedicates a chapter to the behavior seen in stadiums, expressing concern over the environment for children at sporting events. He recalls attending a Romania-Hungary match in 1981, emphasizing how such settings can cultivate a culture of violence and antisemitism.

Paraschivescu critiques the current political elite, describing their behavior as lamentable and expressing skepticism about the idea of refreshing the political class, which he considers nearly utopian. He also mentions the misuse of the term 'gaffe' in the media, illustrating his point with the example of Viorica Dăncilă.

Despite these critiques, Paraschivescu remains optimistic about Romania, calling it a sensational country filled with charm and surprises. He expresses a deep affection for Romania, declaring he would never leave, and describes the nation as a beautiful, unspoiled lover, despite some of its inhabitants.

The author acknowledges the increase in theater attendance and the importance of cultural events, noting a recent concert conducted by Cristian Măcelaru, where he observed that premature applause can stem from ignorance rather than rudeness. Paraschivescu’s reflections are a blend of personal insight and social commentary, making 'Noul ghid al nesimțitului' a significant contribution to understanding contemporary Romanian society.